So, you’re thinking of getting engaged. Chances are, you already know your intended spouse pretty well, but have the two of you talked about everything? I’m talking those really meaningful, deep life questions. Do you know your partner’s opinions, values, and thoughts, especially on important issues? There are a lot of questions to ask before gettingContinue reading “48 Questions to Ask Before Getting Married – Healthy Goals For Love”
Physicians use the word “trauma” to describe a serious injury to the physical body resulting from a sudden impact, such as an accident or a violent act. But you can also suffer emotional trauma, which can cause an equally painful wound to your sense of self as a whole, coherent being. Just like a woundContinue reading “The Impact of Unresolved Trauma on Relationships”
Abusive relationships can do a lot of damage to your emotional health and mental well-being. It can feel painful and deeply distressing — to say the absolute least — when someone you love and trust: begins to criticize you or put you down tries to control or manipulate you into doing what they want becomes physically or sexually abusive TheseContinue reading “How to Recognize and Heal from Relationship PTSD”
Emotional and psychological trauma is the result of extraordinarily stressful events that shatter your sense of security, making you feel helpless in a dangerous world. This Trauma does not always have to be your own. It may be experiencing others trauma or having a profound emotion that makes us feel effected by someone else’s experience.Continue reading “Focusing On Others While Healing From Trauma”
Where do you take a vehicle that a mechanic has messed up? Recently I have been asking this key question to those who come to me for advice regarding emotional trauma or healing. Before I share the answer to that question, I want to express that in society today we have tried to offer soContinue reading “Soul Healing”
You are reaching and your addiction has made you feel like you are your own ghost. I know from experience that like any addiction, whatever yours is, you are dealing with many of the same emotions any trauma brings on. You’ve read so many resources trying to end this journey of addiction you’ve reached outContinue reading “For The Addicts”
We’re all capable of abuse when we’re frustrated or hurt. We may be guilty of criticizing, judging, withholding, and controlling, but some abusers, including narcissists, take abuse to a different level. Narcissistic abuse can be physical, mental, emotional, sexual, financial, and/or spiritual. Some types of emotional abuse are not easy to spot, including manipulation. It can include emotional blackmail, using threats andContinue reading “Overcoming Abuse From A Narcissist”
At each great point in our lives we understand some sort of fantastic victory or as an alternate some overwhelming stark reality of disparity. But until just recently I had never dealt with battling the ideas of whether life had some possible escape through death. As so not to forget that my own words canContinue reading “Life: Still Worth Living”
I went to see the sunrise but my body would not allow me to leave. So I was unable to get there, where the earth turns downward to bring the burning star over the horizon. For a moment it became a realization that I nor anyone else had ever seen the sun actually rise. ItContinue reading “Lives Of Memories”
I haven’t been single very long now but even so there are still lessons I am learning and understanding regarding new relationships in comparison to my past one. As new people come into your life it is natural to discover also new anxiety as well. Things that you may not have yet been aware ofContinue reading “Overcoming Self Sabotaging In New Relationships”
Yes, that is pretty straight forward. You probably keep a lot of things buried as you are trying to battle your way back to reality. If you are still in the midst of your abuse or have just gotten out of it then it may feel like you are just laying there looking up wonderingContinue reading “When Someone You Love Kills You”
If someone makes you feel fear at all then your love or relationship is not from a good place. It is not from God or from any higher power or plane of existence. For it is fundamental in any belief that Love is not made up of fear. Even scriptures thousands of years old sayContinue reading “The God Angle: Fear”
The God Angle & Other Secrets We Never Should Have Kept From Ourselves. If you arrived upon this for the poetry then scroll to the bottom where it says 436 Words: unless you want the back story. In the recent past I came to understand a great deal of how I was viewing my relationshipsContinue reading “The God Angle: Love (Trigger Warning Sexual Abuse)”
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I’m Jonathan, glad you found me. If you are here to try to be destructive then you are only destroying yourself through giving time to things that truly you cannot affect. Get a hobby or try to do something helpful or productive. This will help the self worth issues you surely are dealing with and causes you to have time enough to look people up online. Your actions are causing you to not focus perhaps on those around you that most likely are being neglected emotionally and physically by your self destructive actions.
I will try to keep things categorized so it is easier to navigate between all the subjects that I dump out here. Please excuse the writings and meanderings on love as they will always exist within me.
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